Epilepsy – What Other People Think

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A lot of the challenges people with epilepsy face don’t actually come from the condition itself – they come from other people not understanding what epilepsy is. When friends, classmates, or even adults don’t know much about seizures, they can make assumptions, react awkwardly, or say unhelpful things without meaning to. This lack of understanding can make everyday situations feel harder than they need to be.

Many young people with epilepsy say they sometimes feel “different” from their peers. It’s common to feel anxious about being judged, teased, or left out. Even the possibility of a seizure can make social situations feel stressful, and that fear can build up over time. But it’s important to remember that feeling different doesn’t mean you are less capable, less fun, or less worthy of friendship. Often, once people actually understand what epilepsy is, and what a seizure looks like, they generally become more supportive, not less.

Click on this link for information about how to tell friends and family about epilepsy. 
Click on this link for information about how to deal with having a seizure in public.

Click on each of the play buttons if you want to hear people with epilepsy explain other people’s reactions to them and how they cope with that.

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“I tell everyone about my epilepsy. Answering their questions, making sure they know the truth about epilepsy makes a big difference. I can see the change from ‘oooh you have epilepsy’ to it not being a big deal, it is just something I have.”

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“Every single person in this world deals with something, whether it is physical, mental, financial, relational, emotional…. People deal with stuff every day. We just have to figure out the best way to deal with what we have.”

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“People are afraid of epilepsy because they do not know much about it. If your friends are truly friends, they will stand by you and want to help. If you are comfortable with it, it’s good to talk about it with other people who also have epilepsy and can understand where you’re coming from.”